Even Menu will highlight the selected mark.
Are you passing only one value on the filter action? Maybe you could load up a parameter and let the user select the value that way. That would leave the sheet itself unmarked.
You may be able to employ a variation of this trick: Never Ending Navigation: Buttons that Deselect Themselves – VizPainter
The original solution was to avoid the problem of having to deselect a previous click on a navigation element before it will respond to another click. One of the outcomes of the solution is that the original click will deselect immediately.