You're much more likely to receive a helpful response if you post a packaged workbook with sample data (see Anonymize your Tableau Package Data for Sharing). One of our fantastic users may be able to find a usable workaround.
I have a workaround, I just think this is a flaw or limitation in Tableau.
Another suggestion/comment: Limiting a Action Filter to 1 per sheet is not good. If you want to have Hyperlinks for a list of measures, that then each go to a different Dashboard to build out more detail, you have to create a worksheet for each metric and then smush them together on the main dashboard so that they all have hyperlinks.
Should have the ability to have Action filter on measures / dimensions.